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Postby Earl » Mon May 01, 2017 1:39 pm

Hi
What is abuse and when does it start.
I am a child of the 60's I was beaten with whatever was at hand. Slippers, sticks, hands, ridging crops.
At the weekends I was taken to naturist beaches and clubs, had numerous photos taken. Mainly Dad instigated this.
Sundays I was taken to Baptist Church morning noon and night. Mainly mum instigated this.
Constantly I keep reading about petty allegations in the press and cannot believe that just because my parents were not famous that they can get away with this.
I have suffered with anxiety and depression all my life, having said this I am a fighter.
Monday to Friday I was a Catholic school.
My parents divorced when I was 16,
Suggestions.
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Re: abuse

Postby dls » Mon May 01, 2017 1:58 pm

It is not a matter for proper public discussion of any details.

Talk to either or both a specialist solicitor or the police. You may not get anywhere, and we cannot say from here whether you should or should not succeed.
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Re: abuse

Postby shootist » Mon May 01, 2017 3:17 pm

You first need to heal yourself.
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Re: abuse

Postby atticus » Mon May 01, 2017 3:55 pm

I am going to say that Earl needs to find a good counsellor. How she does that, I really have no idea.
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Re: abuse

Postby Hairyloon » Mon May 01, 2017 4:16 pm

Earl wrote:What is abuse and when does it start...
At the weekends I was taken to naturist beaches and clubs, had numerous photos taken...

Well that raises an interesting question, though I'm not sure how best to frame it in words: is naturism intrinsically indecent?
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Re: abuse

Postby shootist » Mon May 01, 2017 4:29 pm

Hairyloon wrote:
Earl wrote:What is abuse and when does it start...
At the weekends I was taken to naturist beaches and clubs, had numerous photos taken...

Well that raises an interesting question, though I'm not sure how best to frame it in words: is naturism intrinsically indecent?


Indecency is in the eye of the beholder. I was amazed to watch a documentary on a couple of Utah Mormon families living adjacently, each with one husband and three or four wives, and a horde of kids. They were clearly very well off and at one scene were frolicking around a large swimming pool in gloriously hot weather, all fully clothed, not a swimming costume in sight.
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Re: abuse

Postby 3.14 » Mon May 01, 2017 6:53 pm

Hairyloon wrote:
Earl wrote:What is abuse and when does it start...
At the weekends I was taken to naturist beaches and clubs, had numerous photos taken...

Well that raises an interesting question, though I'm not sure how best to frame it in words: is naturism intrinsically indecent?
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Re: abuse

Postby Boo » Mon May 01, 2017 7:03 pm

God - "I have made Mankind!"
Angels - "You screwed up a perfectly good monkey is what you did. Look at it. It's got anxiety!"
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Re: abuse

Postby Labrador » Sun May 21, 2017 12:43 pm

Whilst I agree this shouldn't be a matter for public discussion I suggest the op considers therapy for his own piece of mind..
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